There is leave taking with the coming of each new day. As we wake we let go of the dreams or nightmares that plagued our sleep. We leave behind what was unfinished yesterday and either forget it or add it to the hopes of the hours to come. We take our leave of one day on the calendar, turn to the next, hope for the best. Even though it seems unbelievable to me, I have been told our bodies, every day, leave behind some of our sloughed off skin and our cells make something new of their old form. We are created to be leave-taking creatures.

I am surrounded by passages, by leave taking, these days. Some dear ones who grace my life are making their way from this place near me to other places miles away. My heart will need to stretch mightily to hold this, to continue to feel their connection. Leave taking. Some friends have recently lost their aged parents changing the shape of a life they have always known. Leave taking. The young ones in our lives are taking new steps into school, some for the first time, others for the last for at least a while. Friends and loved ones are moving from vocations they have known to places of unknown freedoms and a new way of shaping their days. Leave taking.

These days we are traveling are taking us to the season of leave taking. Autumn. I watch as, first one, and then another leaf lets go from the trees in our yard, taking their leave of the branch that has held them and brought them nourishment. In just a few short weeks the winds will howl and violently sweep their siblings from their same comfortable home. Leave taking with be followed by leaf raking.

“Of all horrid things, leave taking is the worst.” Jane Austen wrote these words in her novel Emma. Perhaps. These moments, days, years of movement from one place to another, leaving someone, someplace, behind are certainly the heart-breaking times of life. But they are also the needed dance of growth, of possibility, of creativity made manifest. We know this as parents, as teachers, as friends, as earth-walkers. Before we can understand the joy and exhilaration of flying we must let go the rope that tethers us.

So it goes. And so I am holding my heart in my hands. Outstretched. The leave taking will push those I love to places of newness and great adventures, of the next chapter in a life well lived. And because my life is so intricately woven into the fabric of this Creation, I too, will feel its pull. It is as it has always been and ever will be. Amen and amen.

I spent the majority of last week in the presence of Quakers. I am still basking in the glow of it. There is something wonderful that happens to people who welcome silence, who sit in silence and name is worship, who need not fill up every moment with the sound of their own voices. Even in the presence of those whose language rules their days, these people hold out a certain gem of possibility. “Perhaps the answer……or the question, lives in the silence”. They seem to breath this message into a gaggle of talkers. Yes, perhaps this is true.

During our large group gatherings there was not that much literal silence. People spoke. We sang. We laughed. Some cried. But because there were, sprinkled among us, those who knew how to hold silence, how to be silence, the communal setting took on a gentleness and ease that filled my heart. If real and true silence came, there was an ability to sit with it until something shifted and sound began again. It was a rich, rich experience.

Sunday’s scripture was the parable of the farmer whose crops had yielded so much that he believed the only answer was to tear down the barn he had and build bigger barns. Remember it? It is a story that boggles the 21st century brain, the consumer-driven mind. Of course, parables can have a wide range of meanings and are almost always limited only by the imagination of the reader. One of Jesus’s great gifts to us are these multi-meaning stories. They make us work for our understanding, our faith, our interpretation. No easy answers here! For me this ancient story says much about ‘enough’. It really gives my ego a sucker punch. The farmer sees success and is ready in the blink of an eye to throw away what had been just fine up till then. This land-tender is seduced by the ‘more is better’ mentality. More. Bigger. It is a trap I know all too well.

Hearing this story after my time with the Quakers created a nice fabric for reflection. So much of my day is filled with words, information that must be taken in, analyzed, put to some good use. The stock-piling of words, the contribution of sound can sometimes create the illusion of fullness, a fullness that is not quite it seems.

This is when silence becomes the safe place to rest until my soul catches up with the activity of body and mind. “Restless, I go down to the barn and attempt to dissect the concept of ‘peace’.” These words begin the memoir of Mary Rose O’Reilly about her learning as a Quaker, Buddhist shepherd in The Barn at the End of the World. In this beautifully written encounter with the often silent life of the farm, O’Reilly tells of the hard work, reflection and gift of silence that gives birth to a deeper dwelling for what we name holy in our different ways. It is a gem of a book.

As I look back on this experience of last week’s silent gifts, I am reminded of the scripture from 1 Kings in which the prophet Elijah experiences the presence of God. “Now there was a great wind, so strong that it was spitting mountains and breaking rocks in pieces before God but God was not in the wind; and after the wind an earthquake, but God was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but God was not in the fire; and after the fire a sound of sheer silence.” Elijah came to experience God not in all the wild and powerful sounds but in silence.

This week when the sounds of the world are pushing in, making it difficult to hear myself into the day, I am going to tune into my inner Quaker and remember the sheer grace of these people I experienced who walk so quietly in the world. Just thinking this makes me smile.

“…..And we pray, not
for new earth or heaven, but to be
quiet in heart, and in eye,
clear. What we need is here.”
~Wendell Berry

This week I heard this poem read in its entirety. It is a full and beautiful piece of poetry with the title ‘Wild Geese’ but it was these last few lines that gripped my heart and held on for dear life. ‘What we need is here.’

What we need is here. Do we believe this certain and direct statement? I think of all the conversations, both spoken and overheard, that tell the opposite story. The story of ‘not enough’, of ‘ not now’ is more common, of some distant future in which all will be as it should be, fully realized paradise or at least less pain and heartache. The here and now seems to hold little trust for many.

We live in a culture that lures us into believing that we are not enough, that we do not have the resources, the talent, the brains, the education, you name it, whatever it is we do not have enough of it. But Berry’s wisdom offers us another slice of a much more delicious pie: We have what we need…..right here, right now.

Those of us who make a home in institutions like the church or in other structures created to house the human spirt, schools, universities, hospitals, clinics, neighborhoods, families, often look for someone or something outside the circle to help shape an uncertain future. The present is filled with problems and challenges we did not see coming, that do not fit neatly into the boundaries those before us created. Our nation and our world, our governments and leaders face this same view of who and what we were while realizing that the sands are shifting toward a future that demands more of us. If we allow ourselves, we see, we feel this tugging and pulling all around.

I believe we live in a pivotal, tilting place and much is being required of us. Perhaps it has always been this way. Perhaps our ability to know so much about what is happening in the world in the blink of an eye, in the brush of a Google keystroke makes it seem more real, more urgent. Whatever the soil into which we have been planted, there is an itching toward change, big change for most of what we have known to be bedrock. Do you sense this?

For this reason Berry’s words have stayed with me. It is so easy to look outside ourselves for answers. And yet, this poem so clearly states that we have what we need to solve whatever perceived problem stares us in the face. We have the right people, the best resources, the answers to the questions, right here, right now. The creativity needed must be fed by a quiet heart and the clarity to see the gifts that often go unnoticed, unopened in our midst.

What challenges do you face this day? What problem seems overflowing in your life? As you look out the window of your soul toward the world that nests you, what seems to be unraveling, shifting?

Today may be the day to quiet our hearts, to see, really see with the greatest clarity. What we need is here.

“Train a child in the way they should go and when they are old they will not depart from it.”
~Proverbs 22:6

The other day I was audience to some mighty parenting. Sitting on the beach looking over Lake Superior just north of Bayfield, Wisconsin, I watched as a mother gave very important and direct instruction to her two children. She was clear. She was consistent. She insisted that their actions had consequences. In my early parenting days, these were all lessons I had been told were important in nurturing and helping a child to become independent and to grow in a healthy way. It was amazing to see this in action.

This parenting I observed was not happening between two children and their parent on the beach. Instead, this clear and instructive behavior was shown to me by a mother merganzer and her two, furry little young ones. I first noticed them swimming along as they rode on her back in the frigid, blue water. The mother’s fancy, furry head looked like a hat worn at the Kentucky derby, all pointed, reddish spikes of feathers sticking out like a crown. The two young ones did not yet have any distinctive markings but instead were just two balls of cuteness going along for the ride.

That is until Mom rose up just enough out of the water, wings wide, to send the two little ones splashing into the water. On their own. She never looked back but kept right on with her measured, slow movement along the water’s surface. One of the little birds hugged the edge of the pier keeping its body as close to something solid as it could. The other one clearly was having none of this independence stuff. It jumped right back onto Mom’s back. She swan just a few inches and then ‘boom’ up she rose again sending the little one back into the water. On its own. For another go at the individuated life.

This parenting dance went on for some time as I looked on. At one point both little birds scooted….that’s the only way to describe it….across the top of the water and landed on their parent’s back once again. I think they thought they were home-free. But within a few minutes, the mother bird had risen up and dumped them back into the water for another go at growing up.

Over on the beach I watched as two human parents played with their children on the beach. The parents were trying to lure their children into the cold waters of the lake. First, the father ran in and submerged himself to his chest as the little girl and boy cheered. Then the mother did the same. Both parents tried to coax the children from the beach. The young girl waded out to get her feet wet but was not charmed by the frigid water. The little boy wanted desperately to try the water, to do what dad had done, but its expanse seemed to frighten him.

This growing up, this parenting is not for the faint of heart. Whether human or animal, being present to the growing up of another is work filled with both the deepest joy and the rawest pain. Some who are new to the world want to hold on to older hands for as long as possible. Others cannot let go soon enough. But the role of parent, or that of soul friend, often means flapping wings and sending the other from the nest so they can become their truest self. It is the way of the world. It is the way of Creation.

School will soon be starting and parents will put children on buses driven by folks they barely know but must trust. Middle schoolers will walk into hallways that seem longer and more intimidating than those they knew last year in their younger selves. High school students will begin to sense a new found independence and the unveiling of future possibilities. Those headed to college will take steps both frightening and full of excitement.

As it all happens, someplace a parent is moving into the shadows knowing their work is done. At least for this leg of the journey.

The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing… not healing, not curing… that is a friend who cares.
~Henri Nouwen

Late last week I visited one of our dear ones who had had surgery. She was still in hospital and when I arrived the caring angels known as nurses were attending to getting her back into bed. I waited outside the room till she was settled. While I was standing there I looked up to see a card that was posted on the wall outside the doors. ” Quiet please…..healing in progress.” I allowed this invitation to slosh around in my mind. Those who have not been in hospitals with any regularity may not know that they can sometimes be one of the loudest spaces around. As family members and guests come and go from visits, as the pages for this and that booms through the sound system, as the beeps and blips of the various machines sound out, it can combine to make quite the racket.

Healing does take a certain dose of quiet. Stillness. Being present to breath and heartbeat. Anyone who has gone through any kind of surgery, accident or injury knows this. There is a certain amount of silence that is needed for whatever our bodies require to repair themselves to their healthy state. The same is true for those wounds that come to our minds, psyche, our hearts. Quiet can do much to soothe what ails our bodies and minds to create this progress toward healing.

Of course, in contexts that house our spirits, quiet has always played a part. Religious traditions that nurture the spirit have always understood the element of quiet that weaves through whatever other rituals help us express the spiritual in our lives. Whether that is outright silence in prayer or meditation or the wordless act of dance and intentional, mindful walking, quiet brings some gift of healing to the noise and chaos of our world.

But sometimes healing demands not so much quiet as a voice. Sometimes that voice is loud and big and fills the space that surrounds the one who longs for healing. I think of those whose lives have been torn by abuse or addiction, those whose voices have been stifled for a myriad of reasons. Sometimes healing comes in shouting or screaming so the world will hear, so you will be noticed, seen. Often the silence has held too much pain, too much secrecy and the healing can only begin with sound.

It has been my privilege over the years to be present to healing, healing that was physical and much that was of a spiritual nature. I have watched people come back from ailments or conditions of the body that seemed impossible. Other times I have been present to the measured motion of a spirit healed. All these movements have taken determination, tears, skill, patience and a powerful showering of prayer. There have been quiet, often silent moments in this healing. There have also been shouts of anger and frustration and railings toward self and God and the seeming unfairness of the world. At the time it seemed a big soup pot of countless ingredients that eventually led to healing.

But when those who know healing look back at their journey, and I count myself among them, they almost always see the intricate dance of silence and sound. The steps of the path of healing are like a weaving of so many threads we understand and those that are pure mystery. It has always been so.

For all those who seek healing this day, may there be the quiet that is needed and the space for the sound that must be heard.

“And now perhaps our travels will bring us again to the Holy Island of Lindisfarne like so many, pilgrims and tourists alike. Most will venture over only between the tides when the island is an island in name only. The tide comes in and the place becomes quieter. With tourist and holiday-maker less in evidence, islander and island speak, and smile, then leave us to thoughts of our own. It has always been that way.”
~ Ronald Blythe

Yesterday as I made my way out into the early morning, I was hit full force with a feeling of home. By this I do not mean the home I have known, have made, for the last few decades. Instead I was plunged head long into the home of my childhood. The morning was bright but understated in its light. But the air was filled with moisture that was causing a fog to move in along the fields I passed on my way to the gym. These fields are full of tiny little creeks that wind and turn through the tall, green grass. The mist of the morning created not only a visible image of the foggy mornings of my childhood but also the smell, fresh and full of autumn, a sensation I wanted to ignore in favor of holding onto summer as long as possible. This experience left me thinking about the ways in which place finds a home in us, creates memory, memories that can cause a flood of feeling to wash over us and define our day.

Later in my morning reading, I came across these words of Ronald Blythe about the holy island of Lindisfarne, a place I visited three years ago. It had been a life long dream to go to this island that has the ebb and flow of sea around it, allowing people to cross to its shores only when the tide is out and to be a resident there until the tide recedes again several hours later. It is a place inhabited by those who welcome pilgrims and travelers, those whose life’s work is to tell the stories of the ancient ones who once prayed and studied there, those who tried to make sense of what it meant to be the people of God in their time, in this ever-changing place. Visiting this place as I did, I was both pilgrim and tourist. Pilgrim seeking to experience the Holy in this place where so many prayers had been prayed for so many years. Tourist in the need to purchase small tokens to remember the place, trying to hold on to something of the sacred nature of it all for the times when my spirit feels disconnected from the vast expanse of the Universe.

What captured my imagination in Blythe’s words was the idea that once there is enough space, ‘island and islander speak.’ This reminded me of what I have experienced in so many places, this sense that as humans we have a conversation going on with the landscape that houses us. If we can calm our minds. If we can create space. If we can stop talking in words meant to dazzle and distract.

Last week as I sat on the shore of Lake Superior, I engaged in one of these wordless conversations. Each morning I sat and allowed the Big Lake to talk to me, teach me, hold out its wisdom to my waiting hand, my hungry heart. Through the glistening of sun on the glasslike water to the ways in which those with wings calmly glided along the water’s path, the lake spoke and I listened. We did not use words but the ancient language of knowing passed between us. We were both reminded of the vastness of which we are a part. We were both urged to remember the ways we are connected. We reminded each other of the gifts of gratitude and awe and mystery. This being a part of Creation is holy work and I felt blessed to be in the dialogue.

The smell of yesterday morning transported me to the soil and sky that shaped me. Last week’s conversation with Minnesota’s enormous lake filled me up until next time. Remembering my crossing to Lindisfarne helped me see the long line of those who have conversed with land and sea, who have carried on these wordless prayers for centuries, offering praise and thanksgiving to the One who breathes through us all.

It has always been this way.

“Come, come, whoever you are
Wonderer, worshipped, lover of leaving.
It doesn’t matter.
Our is not a caravan of despair.
Come, even if you have broken your vow
a thousand times.
Come, yet again. Come, come.”
~Rumi

If truth be told, I probably do far too much thinking about what it means to be church. I recognize that there are folks who could tell me exactly what church is though I might not agree with their definition. This naming might take the form of those who see this gathering of people as sharing a set of particular beliefs, affirming certain words and principles that don’t fit well in my mouth, much less my heart. There would also be others who would define church with all the things we are not…..not welcoming….not inclusive…..not open…..not accepting….not in touch with this 21st century world in which we find ourselves. Though I may understand how they could come down in this place, I don’t think this negative view is any more accurate than the definition which is so full of certainty.

Perhaps it is because I came to give myself over to ‘church’ when I was very young, in those adolescent years when your heart is so ready to fall in love. And I did. I fell in love with church. I spent a lot of time there. In youth group on Sunday evenings and at gatherings with other people my age who had this sense that being together, questioning together, trying to understand how the world worked and making meaning of it, was somehow tied to this thing called church. My parents didn’t push me. In fact, I think they sometimes worried about my desire to spend the time there that I did. I went to church on Sunday morning, participated in worship and then sometimes during the week would go back to the building and practice piano or organ there. A lot of people would have found this very weird.

But somehow, at some point of this impressionable time of my life, church became the place it seemed to me the ‘wonderers, the worshipers, and the lovers of leaving’ all found a home. It seemed to me a good idea to stick with a group of people who would keep feathering a nest for all the diversity of humanity who might show up at any time. The really cool people. The not-so-attractive. Those who didn’t have much and those who had more than was necessary. Those who got good grades, those just scraping by and those who had given up a long time ago. This is who showed up and more and we all just tried to make sense of our lives and some deep held belief that we were connected to something, Something, that was bigger than who any of us was individually or collectively.

I have called this ‘something’ God or the Holy or Spirit. Others may name it differently. It has always seemed to me that those of us who show up to be church have a sense that we are a part of some bigger story. Some of us find that narrative in the scriptures. As those who make their home in the Christian household, we look to the epic tellings of our Hebrew ancestors and then try also to figure out how Jesus and his rag-tag group of followers fit into who we say we are, who we try to be. We try to live into a tribe who ‘is not a caravan of despair’. It’s big work, difficult work, confusing work, inspiring work and the main work I have come to believe has the power to transform the world.

Personally, I have broken my vow to this community over and over again. I know that this will no doubt be my pattern for the rest of my days. But through it all, I find it a great joy to get up every morning knowing, deeply knowing that this place and people I call church is also the home that continues to say “Come, yet again. Come. Come.”

And in that invitation I hear the voice of God.

God said, “I command light to shine!” And light started shining. God looked at the light and saw that it was good. He separated light from darkness and named the light “Day” and the darkness “Night.” Evening came and then morning—that was the first day. …
Genesis 1:3

There are experiences that connect us, those times that remind us what it means to be these fragile, blessed ones who walk upright on the earth. These are experiences that strip away all the things we usually believe divide us. Sometimes it can be as simple as a knowing glance between two parents as they watch a child do another amazing feat. Sometimes it is the way your heart tugs in your chest when you see an act of unkindness toward another that has also been an unkindness you have known. It can be the sound of a particular piece of music that weaves the strands of your life back in time to people and places you once knew, to another way you knew yourself. If we allowed ourselves, these invisible lines of connections could make up the food that feeds our day.

Last evening I was privileged to be in one of those moments where perfect strangers gathered with the expressed purpose of being filled with awe. As last night’s full moon was known to be rising, groups of people began to filter toward the shore of Lake Superior to watch what had been called a ‘super moon’, make its way out of the water and into the sky. We had all gathered to be in the presence of what seems like miracle. A small gathering of people sat in deck chairs while two musicians sang with the accompaniment of their back up singers……the many gulls that flitted and flew over head. Other human ones made little nests for themselves in the rocks still warm from the day’s other bright light, the Sun. Some of us leaned expectantly on a fence. Whether singing or talking or pointing a camera, we all kept our attention on the horizon which was to offer the true gift of the day.

Not more than an hour before we had made our way to watch this ‘full moon rising over Superior’, I had received a text message that simply said: “Boy king born.” My husband knew I would want to know that the royal watch across the pond was over and the baby had, indeed, been born. Passing on this information to my travel companions we all breathed a sigh of relief and joy. It is a funny thing to not know these people whose lives unfold in the world’s view but to care about the birth of their child. Another one of those great connectors…..birth.

The night before I received a phone call from Seattle Son telling me of the death of one of our dear friends, someone who had helped raise him, someone he called his second mother. We sat and talked, miles separating us but entwined nonetheless by one of life’s great threads, death. We shared stories and memories and the blessing of having known such a generous and compassionate person. We felt the distance of miles but not of heart.

I often say that some days are simply fuller than others. Some days we are filled with the deep knowing that our days are precious gifts not to be squandered, not to be taken for granted or lived lightly. These are the days when you walk into the full body experience of the beauty and terror of living taking the deepest breath you possibly can, trying to etch the miracle of it all someplace in your brain so you will always feel the gratitude that threatens to drown you.

Of course, this kind of constant awareness is impossible. It might also drive us mad to walk around in our daily walk with such a sensitivity to the miraculous dripping out our pores. The mundane may be what keeps us sane. Doing the laundry, driving in traffic, organizing our sock drawers may just be what we need to keep us from lifting into the air filled with bliss.

Last night I held the news of both birth and death within me. I stood looking at the waters that have filled me with awe over and over again. I joined in the congregation of those who came to have one more dose of this miraculous life. It was what reminded us that we are all in this together. Breath to breath. Birth to birth. Death to death.

And sometimes we are blessed to see a full moon, a Super Moon, rising.

“If this is not a place where tears are understood, then where can I go to cry?”
~Ken Medema

It is common knowledge among those who know me that I am a crier. My tears come easy and often. My mother has often said that I could be hired out as a chief mourner my tears flow so easily. I cry when I am happy as well as sad. The tears pour forth when I am in the presence of beauty as well as when my heart is breaking. If tears cleanse the eyes of impurities, I must have the healthiest eyes around!

There was a time when I was embarrassed by my easy tears. I saw them as a character flaw, a sign of weakness. But recently I have been thankful that I find myself in a variety of communities where tears, particularly my tears, are not only accepted but understood. Some have even said that this emotional response provides some kind of open space for others to do the same. I hope this is true because I truly believe there is great benefit in the ability to have a place where our tears are at home without judgment.

Growing up I recall going to many funerals. Living in a small town you know everyone and everyone knows you. When someone dies, it is not unusual for people to attend any and all funerals. As a child I was quite accustomed to being in the presence of adults who showed their emotions. I saw both men and women and children cry, people I knew well and those I knew only through the adults in my life. This mournful crying was a part of what it meant to be community, connected through living and through dying.

One Sunday during worship several years ago I remember becoming emotional while singing a particular song. I tried to hide this deep feeling. After the service one of our members came up to me and said words I have thought of so often. “Don’t ever apologize for crying. Your tears are the work of the Holy Spirit.” Her words have stuck with me and I think of them every now and then, especially when tears appear unbidden.

On Saturday we drove into the countryside of Wisconsin to pick blueberries. For most people this would not be a cause for tears. But as we walked into the rows of succulent blueness, looking out over the green hills rolling into themselves like ocean waves,the sheer beauty of it took my breath away. Joining the other pickers who had come to harvest this midsummer sweetness, the emotion welled up in my throat and I marveled that I was blessed to be a part of this marvel. The tears that pools in the corners of my eyes did not surprise me.

This morning I awoke to the sounds of gulls swooping and singing over the harbor of Lake Superior in Grand Marais. Making my way to the water in the early light of the day, the promise of another summer day arrived in all its glory. The water glistened with the yellow glow of yet another twenty four hours of pure gift. Watching the boats head out into the horizon that seems like the expanse of ocean even though we know otherwise, I once again had this feeling of immense gratitude that this life is something I am blessed to live. While no tears appeared, the emotion filled my whole being and I would not have felt embarrassed if the tears would have flowed. They would have seemed an appropriate response to such beauty.

Do you have a place where tears are understood? I pray so. We each need a place where it is safe to shed the tears that well up in good times and in bad. It might be the awesome realization of what it means to be a part of this Creation, this blessed earth home. It might be the sadness that rips a heart apart. Or it just might be a visitation of the Spirit that causes eyes to well up, spill over and connect us once again with the One who breathed us into being.

” With rock piles and signposts, mark the way home, my dear people. It is the same road by which you left.”
~Jeremiah 31:21

Summer is the time of travel. Even if folks aren’t going on vacation or literally traveling, the rhythm of days is often varied enough that it feels like a different path. Perhaps it is that ‘school year’ mentality that is planted in us at an early age that causes summer to become the season of freedom, of blessing, of out-of-the-ordinary. We allow even the most regular of activities to become a little lax, slowing down, playing more than we normally allow. Summer becomes a kind of excursion all its own. It is good, very, very good.

At some point of the last few months the words of the prophet Jeremiah have been showing up all over the place for me. We have read them in worship and I have stumbled over them in other summer reading. Frankly, I’ve always loved this book of scripture so I am always excited when these challenging and poetic words fly across my radar screen. And these short but powerful phrases above, from the end of this ancient text, capture my imagination.

First of all, they remind me of the towers of stones I have witnessed on travels to Scotland and Ireland. These piles of stones called cairns can be seen dotting roads and paths and can be glimpsed on the ledges and tops of hills and mountains. Their presence is meant to mark experiences that people had along the way. They are ways of pointing out to others that something important has happened in just that spot. These building block statues both mark the place and point the way. They can become a language for telling others that the travelers that preceded them had indeed been there and were now, perhaps, on their way home.

The other part of this scripture that draws me in is the statement: “It is the same road by which you left.” I think of how often we believe we need to leave home, leave ourselves, or our families, to find that vista that is just beyond our view. There is something about being human that gives us the wanderlust to always believe whatever it is we seek is out ‘there’ someplace. Why is this? Most of the stories that shaped us, those myths of the hero or heroine’s journey prove that this urge to set out for a land of promise in which we will be transformed is not far from the surface in any of us.

Myth aside, I remember when our first son was born. I remember thinking as I held him and looked into his beautiful, perfect face, that he came into the world with all he needed to become his true self already planted within him. It would be our privilege as parents to watch him blossom and come to know the gifts that were already stitched into his cells, his personal DNA. We could help create a map and offer tips for the journey but he had his own compass. I believe this is true of each of us though individual circumstances of environment might alter the ability for some to evolve into their fullness. We have all known folks who are burdened with a life that seems too difficult, too fraught with obstacles. I pray God’s blessing upon them and on their labored journey.

Each of us, blessed in our own uniqueness, are always winding our way toward that place we call home. Sometimes this is a literal place and other times it is toward some peace we long for within, some place where we can softly settle in and not struggle so. I imagine the people Jeremiah was writing to had similar experiences, similar longings. All of us, in this human body having a spiritual experience need those rock piles and signposts to mark our way. With each step we remember that the way home is often the same path we left. In that realization we find the way and call it holy.